16 year old erection problem?
Dec.13, 2010 in
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I аm a 16 year οƖԁ male. Very healthy. I һаνе never һаԁ problems wіtһ penis erections, bυt i саחחοt seem tο keep іt up during sex anymore. οr even tο ѕtаrt intercourse. I want tο know аחу reasons tһіѕ mіɡһt bе happening аחԁ һοw i саח һеƖр tһіѕ. іt іѕ kіƖƖіחɡ mе аחԁ hurting mу relationship sexually. i ԁο חοt want tο bе seen аѕ a failure іח bed, bесаυѕе i Ɩονе sex аחԁ always һаνе. Ɩіkе i ѕаіԁ i’ve never һаԁ problems wіtһ tһіѕ before. i јυѕt want tο know wһу аחԁ һοw i саח fix tһіѕ. аחу һеƖр wουƖԁ bе greatly appreciated
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December 13th, 2010 at 10:56 am
Get some viagra and pray to god.
December 13th, 2010 at 10:58 am
I’m telling your parents on you
December 13th, 2010 at 11:42 am
Rosie Palm just isn’t doing it for you any more.
December 13th, 2010 at 11:54 am
STD is most likely. talk to a doctor.
December 13th, 2010 at 12:28 pm
You have to get yourself checked by a Doctor. A 16 year old male going placid is not normal.
Or maybe you’re not into your girlfriend anymore.
Sorry to hear about your problem and good luck!
December 13th, 2010 at 1:15 pm
nah man its nothing to worry about.
i know plenty of 15/16 year olds who couldnt get it up on there first time, so an std is out of the question.
just dont jack off anytime before, you probaly just wernt in the mood enough.
December 13th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
It’s just a phase and pretty emotional draining one too.. Just keep trying. Have her go down on you first before sex – also try new positions/roleplay
December 13th, 2010 at 2:11 pm
go to the doctor and ask them this not us.
December 13th, 2010 at 3:03 pm
relax you probably over work the guy
give “him” some vacation time
after that set the mood and prob-fore play or just fool around before you get him back to Work
like people we work, we vacate, get back into the swing of things, then back to work
December 13th, 2010 at 3:39 pm
Even though men don’t always talk openly about erection problems, it is actually very common among men of all ages (yes, even 16 year olds) to have occasional erection problems. Unfortunately, sometimes when a guy has one or two erection problems, he starts to get nervous and wonder if – thanks to all the Viagra/Cialis/Levitra ads – he has “erectile dysfunction.”
The reality is that most of the time, when young men in their teens, 20s and 30s, the cause is usually psychological rather than physical. That doesn’t mean that you’re crazy; rather it may mean that you are stressing yourself out trying to be a good, pleasing partner; that you are worried or anxious that you’ll be able to get or keep an erection; or it may mean that you’re having sex just because you have the opportunity but not because you’re really “into” your partner.
Having taught human sexuality classes to college students for years, one book that some of my students have found helpful is called “The Sexual Male: Problems and Solutions.” Another – and my personal favorite – is called “The New Male Sexuality” and it is by Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld.
In very rare cases, young men who have erection problems may have other health problems such as diabetes, so if you have questions, please do check in with your healthcare provider. However, in the vast majority of cases, the cause is likely stress or anxiety and not a medical problem.
Also, sexually transmissible infections (STIs – also called STDs) do not cause erection problems. However, if you have had sex with one or more people whether or not you have used condoms – it is recommended that you get checked for STIs. That’s just part of being a sexually responsible person.
I’ve written more about this and other topics on my blog, MySexProfessor.com, and at KinseyConfidential.org. A good teen-focused site is TeenWire.org.
Best,
Debby
December 13th, 2010 at 4:11 pm
You’re gay. Try men.