do all men who take high blood pressure meds suffer from erectile dysfunction?
Wе һаνе bееח together nearly a year аחԁ һе′s never tried haveing sex wіtһ mе. I’m аbουt 14 yrs younger tһеח һіm. Hе іѕ 54. I ɡеt tired οf јυѕt looking аt each οtһеr аƖƖ tһе time. Sο һе comes over wһеrе һе know tһаt nothing іѕ going tο happen, аחԁ sits tһеrе. (һе′s safe) I don’t tһіחk tһаt іѕ rіɡһt tο mе though. Wе саח′t sit here аחԁ look аt eachother forever. I wonder іf һе еνеr thinks аbουt tһіѕ stuff?! I’m tο embaressed tο ѕау anything tο һіm.
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May 8th, 2011 at 5:53 pm
No, not all men have that problem. The total times I fill Viagra and Cialis in a week says that it is a problem, though. Oddly I see as many men under 30 using it as over 50. He really needs to talk to his Doctor. If you go into the room with him the HIPAA law allows you to talk to the Doctor, too, at it is called implied consent. The fact that you are 14 years younger should be enough to get him to forget the embarrassment and just go to the Doctor.
May 8th, 2011 at 5:53 pm
If you dont talk about it how can you fix it. Erectile problems affect nearly all men at some stage or other in their lives and most can be fixed with help from your doctor. A change in medications, or simple dietary changes may be all thats needed. If you feel that you really can’t talk about the problem face to face then try the telephone or putting your thoughts and feelings into a letter. Hope this helps and you are able to overcome this problem
May 8th, 2011 at 6:11 pm
If you know he is on hypertensive medications and you know he has erectile dysfunction you obviously have discussed the effects. Ask him if he has tried any of the new medications for such problems such as Viagra. If you are not comfortable talking with him about this and don’t think it is right for you to go through this, then this may not be the relationship you are looking for.
May 8th, 2011 at 6:14 pm
no dear god.but i wish mine would!!!!!!!
May 8th, 2011 at 7:00 pm
Don’t be embarrassed, and neither should he. To answer your question No all men that take high blood pressure meds don’t suffer from erectile dysfunction. Get some reading material on the topic and you and he can read it together.Real answers are better than just guessing.
May 8th, 2011 at 7:11 pm
Gee you are not getting any younger…..and you want it…SO, just start talking …ta heck with being embarrassed and ask….if he can’t preform sexually, there are other ways the two of you can get it on…you are old enough to know better so start talking. first are you sure he is a guy???? and second by the time i got done asking questions he would wish he never met me…you have the right to know….do you want to live the rest of your life like this???? i wouldn’t
May 8th, 2011 at 7:24 pm
2 different questions:
1st, he should have his blood pressure meds checked and maybe changed. if you take too high a dose you will never get an erection, people on blood pressure meds are often also taking viagra, cialis or levitra. I was given viagra when I was on high doses of blood pressure meds and that was in my late 40′s, i have since been able to lower the dose and now only take cialis when i am preoccupied with work or family issues (viagra, cialis and levitra are excellent but have the doctor check him first to make sure it is safe for him, just look at the side effects and issues that can occur, see site below)
2nd, and probably more important for you, if the relationship is not right then get out