do i have erectile dysfunction or is it something else?
Aug.02, 2011 in
ED News
im 18 years οƖԁ. аחԁ i tһіחk i һаνе ED, wһеח mу gf аחԁ i try tο һаνе sex i саח ɡеt hard bυt tһеח i lose іt wһеח wе аrе putting οח tһе condom, οr bу tһе time іtѕ οח im חοt hard enough tο penetrate һеr.
i саח masturbate wіtһ аח erection tο ejaculation fine, bυt wһеח іt comes tο sex. epic fail.
someone please fill mе іח аѕ tο wһаt i саח ԁο?
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August 2nd, 2011 at 8:48 pm
You’re probably just really nervous. It’ll do that.
August 2nd, 2011 at 9:11 pm
If you are only having issues with your gf, you may either not find her attractive or you are having performance anxiety. Try to relax and definitely don’t have unprotected sex. You could try getting her to stroke it or stimulate you some other way after the condom is on to regain your erection.
August 2nd, 2011 at 9:58 pm
Try to switch it up dont just have sex… start with foreplay such as light touching then wear something to cover your eyes so your brain doesnt know what is going to happen and just let the girl do the work untill you feel as if u are hard enough to remove the eye covering
August 2nd, 2011 at 10:34 pm
Yes, nervousness. Also, your penis may have a “mind of it’s own”. If you masturbate too much, your penis will be too used to it, and won’t respond to anything else. It also may not like being covered by oily rubber.
Try to stay focused on something totally erotic to you (like her, hopefully).
Try going very slow, have her play with you a bit, then get the condom on, play, penetrate, play, penetrate, finish (hopefully for both of you)!
I don’t think it is ED. I know someone who had this same problem, and it was because he masturbated 1 – 3 times a day. When he stopped, he kept it up for hours.
August 2nd, 2011 at 10:35 pm
Take it easy & relax. Sounds like you’re being a wee bit anxious & nervous.