Does anyone know of any supplement or treatment to decrease female libido?
Oct.26, 2010 in
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Mу husband һаѕ low sex drive аחԁ impotence due tο medication һе′s taking. Hе ѕауѕ һе һаѕ חο sex drive уеt I know һе looks аt porn. I’m іח mу early forties, wіtһ a high libido аחԁ tһіѕ іѕ kіƖƖіחɡ mе. I assume I’m attractive judging bу tһе guys tһаt frequently hit οח mе. Bυt I’m חοt interested. I Ɩονе mу husband ѕο I want tο find something tο decrease mу sex drive ѕο I won’t lie іח bed wіtһ tears streaming down mу face anymore. If I knew tһаt іt wаѕ һіѕ medication аחԁ חοt mе, I сουƖԁ live wіtһ іt. Bυt wһаt’s up wіtһ tһе porn? Aחԁ wһу ԁοеѕ еνеrу attractive woman tһаt walks bу catch һіѕ eye іf һе һаѕ חο desire?
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October 26th, 2010 at 10:29 pm
maybe he’s REALLY kinky… and is embarassed to open up to you. But look into viagra, or maybe even steroids
October 26th, 2010 at 10:53 pm
Buy a vibrator!
Antidepressants are known to decrease libidos, but you should not take any medication if you do not need it.
As for the porn, I find porn entertaining. It’s not always about arousal.
October 26th, 2010 at 11:37 pm
Have you considered a series of sex toys and/or a surrogate to release this pent-up sexual energy? You needn’t cheat on your mate to satisfy your needs; simply find an alternative. Supression is the absolute WORST thing you can do; there may come a time when you want that drive you have to enjoy when things change. Don’t ruin your natural instincts for love…
October 27th, 2010 at 12:10 am
Have you volunteered to watch porn with him?
When he watches porn does he respond physically to the visual stimulation? If so honey, jump on that opportunity… Whatever it takes!
If not, get a vibrator and use it in front of him while he’s watching porn. Again, whatever it takes!
October 27th, 2010 at 12:27 am
How terrible. There is much more wrong here than the bedroom. Hubby could do a lot for you to make you feel important, attractive, loved, wanted, etc. Why isn’t he? Sounds like he has a lot of excuses and little empathy or consideration for your feelings. Either he is cheating or he needs to see a doctor. He may be unhappy about things outside of the bedroom and just be using medical reasons for his lack of sex drive because they are easier than actually tackling what is really going on.
Also, guys in their 40′s can’t get aroused as often as they used to, so if he is getting off to porn, he needs to take that arousal to bedroom instead of leaving you high and dry.
There is no drug meant to decrease your libido, although some anti-depressants manage to do a great job of it.
You may consider getting happy and doing what you want with your life outside the bedroom, but at the same time, asking him to step up and treat you like the love of his life that you are. You deserve to be cherished. He needs to step up.