Is this erectile dysfunction or something else… I’m only 21?
Dec.07, 2011 in
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I саח′t ɡеt hard wіtһ a חеw girl friend… each time іtѕ more embarrasing, I try аחԁ prove tο myself mу erection works, bυt іt fails wһеח іtѕ time tο perform…. іѕ tһіѕ mental, οr сουƖԁ I һаνе erectile dysfunction? I’m tοο young fοr ED!
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December 7th, 2011 at 1:36 pm
it is most likely performance anxiety…
stop putting so much pressure on your erection… just get horny, your erection will come along on its own… erection exercises can help too.
December 7th, 2011 at 2:30 pm
Are you still Jelqing? That can be a huge contributer.
It’s most likely performance anxiety and the more pressure you put on yourself the worse it gets. It’s not ED. Learn to relax.
-Connor
December 7th, 2011 at 2:44 pm
naah your just nervous id say stop worrying and go enjoy yourself…think about how turned on you are when going for it lol and dont worry about getting a hard on it will happen when you relaxed
December 7th, 2011 at 3:35 pm
Well, if you want it to get hard and it won’t, that IS ED.
Causes could be performance anxiety, but there can be other causes, some of which need to be checked out.
First off, can you get it hard by yourself or with a different gf ? If not, then definitely see a doc.
ED can be caused even in young men by diabetes, various medications, etc etc etc.
Of course it is possible that willy is telling you he doesn’t like her… Or your subconscious…
You can just say something like “Oh, the little bugger’s gone limp again, but let me go down on you for a while”, then do so, and after a while willy might come to the party.
Keep your nails short and clean.
December 7th, 2011 at 3:52 pm
Performance anxiety is the most common cause of losing or not getting an erection. It is the result of being in your head worrying about whether or not you will get hard or stay hard. Once you start to do that you get caught in a “fear of failure” cycle which keeps reinforcing itself. How to deal with this problem is explained in simple terms in a small inexpensive book on premature ejaculation.
There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is this inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully for more than 32 years.
It is called “Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation” by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just google the author’s name: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.